Week 36 – Recipe for a bigger divorce pie
Week 36 May 28 2012. This week marked us agreeing to a property settlement – not signed, but at least agreed to. I wrote earlier about the pain I had felt when I began to face the full fall-out of …...
View ArticleI am woman
“Your present circumstances don’t determine where you can go; they merely determine where you start”. Nido Qubein Since the separation from my husband I have reflected often on who or what I am. Having...
View ArticleMy values # 5 Integrity
Integrity In my reflection on values of importance to me, it is fitting I include a post on integrity, perhaps the most righteous virtue to aspire to. Integrity is consistency of behaviour based on...
View ArticleMy wants
“I’m here to be me, which is taking a great deal longer than I had hoped”. Anne Lamont I have recently written a series of posts exploring my needs. Thinking through those needs led me one day to have...
View ArticlePeace, fairness and divorce
“Peace involves inevitable righteousness, justice, wholesomeness, fullness of life, participation in decision making, goodness, laughter, joy, compassion, sharing and reconciliation. “ Desmond Tutu In...
View ArticleHolding on …….
Feelings surrounding the ending of a marriage are similar to a grief process that one goes through when someone or something dies. However, any comparison with a death always breaks down for me...
View ArticleMy Life in transition #1 – Creating Certainty
“The woods are lovely, dark, and deep. But I have promises to keep, And miles to go before I sleep, And miles to go before I sleep.” Robert Frost I survived the unexpected change to my life of the...
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